Hi there! My name is Vicky and I want to thank you for enabling my codependent relationship with life. By reading this, you are encouraging my inner voice to speak, thus saving me tons on therapy.
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Running Out Of Options
Options are overrated. The more we allow ourselves to have the more anxiety we create around decision making. If there were only one choice to make then it would make the decision easier thus alleviating any remorse for all the “what if” scenarios we convince ourselves is better.
The Macaroni Has Hit the Fan
Being impulsive is both a curse and a blessing. On one hand you get to jump into something fearlessly. On the other hand you get to jump into something naively.
Disconnected
Changing a habit is never easy. It takes stepping outside your boundaries. For some that’s easy. For others, not so much. Every time I embark on a quest to improve something, my body revolts. I don’t think it’s so much as it’s way of saying “Hell no we won’t go” but more like a timid toddler that keeps falling asleep while insisting they’re not tired.
Motivation Monday • Not So Random
{Motivation Monday} – Brighten Up Your Shadow
Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine. – Ralph Waldo Emerson
What Have I Done?
Dear God, I know it’s April Fools Day and you’re probably still hungover from your ascension but I really need to talk about my current state of mind. You see I have my blog and I want to take a “journey” with it every so often. I had this cool idea about tracking my process as I break a habit, or form a new one – depending on if you’re the half empty / half full type of dude.
My What If Life • Sometimes Daily
Find Your Happy Place
So many times before I thought I had hit rock bottom. It happens to the best of us and I’ve learned to accept it as part of life’s bumps and curves in the road to happiness. But somewhere between Tuesday and Friday, my bipolar subconscious took a turn I never knew it could make nor at the speed that it did.
My What If Life • Sometimes Daily
What they Don’t Tell You About New Year Resolutions
You know what high I’m talking about it. Some people call it adrenaline. It’s that happy high you get when you’re excited about something. You’re beyond enthusiastic and pumped to hit the ground running. The problem is, when you’re high, you’re furthest away from the ground so there’s no running to be done. You’re too high on “what could be” koolaid that you don’t, well do anything.
My What If Life • Sometimes Daily
Woe is my Inner Cinderella
I’ve always identified with the Disney character Cinderella. I had an imaginary mouse as my BFF when I was an only child. Growing up with a vivid imagination to a teen mom and her warped mom didn’t do much to nurture what was later self-proclaimed as my whimiscal self. However the months of childhood neglect [...]
My What If Life • Sometimes Daily
Hitting Rock Bottom
I always envisioned that my version of “smashing into a tree” would be medically related. Something where I’d be inflicted with some preventable disease, as my body’s way of retaliating against my poor decisions. I never thought I would find myself staring down the barrel of a ill-timed checkpoint, without the proper credentials to justify [...]
